Some thoughts of life and marriage.

I am covering OC today. Beside that, have to attend 'extra' meeting and also to finish up the 'old' assignment. Great! no more excuse for my assistance anymore, hopefully. I need to concentrate on my own unit now. What to hand over should hand over, including the problems and unsolved.

Honestly, my angel is telling me not to be calculative. We are in the same division afterall. All right, well, I still miss my previous job, previous CLU friends and elderly (dont ask what is CLU:- is confidential).

Well, if need me, I am still available, but is for inputs and advise. NoT follow up!

Got a female called me who is enquiring her husband's case, however, instead of telling her on the status, she keep telling me on her bad situation in the family of being abused and sometime assaulted by the husband. Well, due to my profession, I am not allow to give her legal advice but just an listening ear for her for almost 2hrs! She is marrying to husband of different race. She unable to get help from her own family, next of kins and friends. She keeping blaming herself from getting married.

Well, I just become a listening ear for her and she felt comfortable in telling me her life and her stories.

Blaming herself from getting married? Well, partly true. I don't believe in marriage. In my own perspective, marriage is to secure a woman on her lifetime with a man. If a man break the marriage promise, yeah! the woman will get monthly maintenance. With custody of the children, which mean more $$ to get from the man.

If you love someone,no need to get marriage. Marriage is a bond and not Love.

Well, just look at the stats.

a)is the number of PPO increasing?
b)is the number of Maintenance cases increasing?
c)is the number of divorce increasing?
d)is the number of Family counselling increasing?
e)is the of lawyer's engagement for such cases increasing?

The stats will tell u the scary part of marriage. As I going to tell u. Marriage is a symbol of bond and not Love anymore. Don't think too much of yourself in the fairytale. Weigh the Pro and Cons. Marriage can be Happy, but divorce can be painful and expensive!!

My caller married a man from other race. Not being racist la. Just that this particular 'type' is in-built with violent profile and more violent when drunk. If dont believe ,try it!

Well, due to my nature of work, bad and sad stories are always by my ears. Perhap this is call occupational hazard ba.

Anyway, what I said here is my own views. I do not represent any media.

cc: PP:- Buddy!! If I still a single old man in near future, my god-son and daughter will take care of me right?? Chey I know what u thinking. OKOK...They will be my nomination for my CPF saving and insurances. haha:)